There is a huge debate between seniors and juniors when it comes to Love Marriage vs Arranged Marriage. It is not like arranged marriages are burst, they do occur, a great deal of times without or with the permission of groom and bride.
However, the 21st generation now has evolved and tends to go for love marriage as opposed to arranged for apparent reasons. Not denying that many parents in Asia still need us to go to get an arranged marriage as they’ve seen a massive number of those weddings becoming successful.
The difference in the sleeping patterns of the two couples is saying a lot about love marriage vs arranged marriage. Couples are usually more closer and less shy in love marriage as compared to arranged marriage.
In love marriage, you could just order in a pizza and you’d be sorted but if you’re involved in an arranged marriage, you can’t really tell your spouse, without hesitation, that you don’t feel like cooking, they might as well get some food for you.
You could really do whatever you feel like while you’re in a love marriage but in an arranged marriage, you really have to abide by a few rules and regulations of the new family (especially if it’s a joint family) you enter into.
In arranged marriage, you’d be expected to more things involving the whole family. But if you’ve had a love marriage, you already know the whole family and therefore, even take your spouse away without hesitating.
In an arranged marriage you cannot say what you’d rather want. But in a love marriage, you could easily raise your voice since you already are comfortable with their family.
In arranged marriage, the in-laws obviously expect their daughter in-law to take responsibilities of the house and you sometimes do not get enough time for yourself. But, in a love marriage, you could easily spare some time for yourself.
Arranged marriages are like expensive lottery tickets that you bought with all your life’s savings. If you win, it’d be all rainbows and sunshine but if you lose, you’ll be broke and depressed.
On the other hand, love marriage is comparatively a safe gamble to play, you already know the person you’re going to marry, in and out. Their strengths, weaknesses and nothing really comes as an unwanted surprise.
Still in plenty of areas in the world, dowry system still exists and mostly from arranged marriages. One can get rid of dowry by having love marriage.